"Dude, what the fuck?"

Mistakes are, highly likely to happen DAILY within life. Small ones, mid-size, and the ever shitty big ass huge mistakes (then there's the deadly mistakes, but that's an entirely different level).

Some you can correct easily. Some so minor that by simply saying, "It's completely my fault that this happen, I made the mistake. No one else," works. It helps you learn that what you did wasn't the the best choice and you (hopefully) learn not to make the same mistake twice.

Other type of mistakes take time and forgiveness. It doesn't happen over night. The sooner you learn THAT, the sooner you can stop crying and whining about how you're sorry. Sorry is a cop out. Sorry fixes small minuet mistakes.

Also, don't lie about your fuck ups. Don't try to point the finger and blame someone else for what you did. It sucks when someone else is involved in the mistake that is an innocent bystander within the scenario that has unfolded. Thanks to you, they may or may not get a shit storm. It really depends on who created the mishap and how they react to it. I've seen people get shocked and point fingers, not wanting to take blame for their actions. Almost embarrassed by what they did. "My god...did I really do that? I don't want any part of this shit storm," is a rough generalization of what probably goes through any ones subconscious when they're about to point fingers at someone else to blame for their faulty behavior. I've seen it, done it (as I grew up but quickly learned not to do that bullshit anymore), and been on the receiving end of finger pointing. It sucks. it's like winning the worst game show in history. You mess up and don't want to be caught with the blame. What do you do? If you're a spineless piece of shit, you look at the next guy and say, "No it's THEIR fault this happened, not me. I had nothing to do with this. Yes sir, I'm completely innocent."

I call BULLSHIT.

If you hadn't lied right there, and instead owned up to what you created, the person asking for an explanation wouldn't have to go through a run-around of crap and stories and the ever so friendship ruining device we call, drama. And they'll probably respect you better for being able to come clean. It shows integrity and respect towards others. Don't lie to them. Grab a spine and stand up straight.

Otherwise, GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE.